Things have been amazing as of late.
I'm in love with the most amazing man, and he loves me back.
i've re-evaluated friendships, and have grown closer to some, and apart from others.

I just don't have the time or energy for "half" friends. And rather than get hurt, because they say or do stupid things, or because they're just not around... I'm just backing away. It's a step in the right direction.

The only bad thing is, I know there will eventually be a backlash. People will be "hurt". How ever these will be the people that were so wrapped up in their own life, that they couldn't take a few minutes to talk to me when I really needed someone. So... why should I care?

I also hate when people lose touch with their friends when they're dating someone new. I still talk to all of mine, be it maybe not as much... but to completely change is a bit stupid. Don't come to me when it doesn't work out. It happens to much for my liking, so I'm just not going to deal with it.

And then they're are the people I've just lost common ground with. When it's almost painful to talk to you because you're so different, what's the point? Most people just stay friends because of the history involved, but sometimes their just isn't any hope.

At the end of the day it's all about effort, and consideration. if you don't give any, then don't expect any in return.